
I've watched all sessions of General Conference but the Saturday afternoon session, so I missed this talk. My friend shared it on Facebook this morning.

Children by Neil L. Andersen

I especially loved this quote:
[Growing] up in this culture, it is very hard to get a biblical perspective on motherhood. … Children rank way below college. Below world travel for sure. Below the ability to go out at night at your leisure. Below honing your body at the gym. Below any job you may have or hope to get.” She then adds: “Motherhood is not a hobby, it is a calling. You do not collect children because you find them cuter than stamps. It is not something to do if you can squeeze the time in. It is what God gave you time for.

I have always struggled with feeling lesser somehow, definitely judged, almost irresponsible, by having 4 kids so close together. It was so nice for me to hear this. It's okay, and it was the way our family was meant to be. It also makes me feel a whole lot better about considering a number 5, crazy as the world (and friends and family and husband!) will think I am. It also made me realize I don't take motherhood seriously enough most of the time. It's like I always have a measuring tape out and get after my kids about things that aren't really all that important. I worry too much about small things and don't appreciate them for who they are right now. I need to work on that, I need to focus more on loving them and not reprimanding them. Feeling loved no matter what is the greatest gift I can give them. It'll be a work in progress my whole life, but I need to make some leaps right now while they're so young and impressionable.

Read. Be strengthened. Enjoy. :)
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